Wednesday, October 15, 2014

Choice

I'm a typical dreamer........

Everyone has a dream and so do I, however I have too many dreams that I have no idea which to set as prior to achieve. I used to be so wanted to be an actress but it is deemed to be unrealistic, hence I forced to give up. Then I feel like be a teacher but I wasn't given a opportunity to do so, so I turn to another side. As I turn, I met my new dream which is to be a language teacher. As time goes by, I found out at least my language skill can be my strength and my fast learning skill also enhance my profile.

My internship is going to end soon and is time for me to plan for my future. I have never think about this issue before this, seriously! I wish to further study to upgrade my education level and as well as my knowledge. My mother persuade me to go overseas to have my Master study there. In addition, my "fiance" can take care of me there, it may sounds not bad. However, for me, I'm considering money, education level, accommodation, culture and also homesick problem, so this probably this is not the ideal choice for me albeit the deal sounds not bad to study abroad plus someone will take care of me there. Then, I also plan to go abroad to Singapore to work and gain experience before I enter my Master level. I believe working experience might support my study in Master. Perhaps after that study abroad can be in consider list too as Singapore dollar is higher than Malaysia Ringgit, at least.

Then, I have think over few times, I also feel to stay at Malaysia and just study Master right after this internship. But, this probably may not be the ideal choice too as I mentioned earlier I wish to gain working experience before I study Master.

I guess I've talk too much, so I would like to make a full stop here. Perhaps the DIRECTION indeed need more time to consider as it may affect my future and my whole life. Please drop me a msg at chatbox if you have any recommendations or suggestions for me. Thank you in advance :)

Monday, October 13, 2014

我家有囍

期盼已久的囍事終于在131014,農曆九月二十日在怡保的登記局順利完成了~ 當然最開心莫過於我父母和嫂嫂的父母了唄~

新人與雙方的父母合照

我哥的這段婚姻説來奇妙,緣分真的很深,從小就被紅線牽引著。雖然這條紅線在3年前才發效,但原來從小他們就已擦肩而過幾次了,先是在同一閒酒樓擺一嵗生日會,然後就輪到一起上學當上了幾年的同學。雖然在中學后各奔東西,但這條紅線真的很強,一直制造機會讓這兩位有機會碰見。

至到有一次小學同學會,他們在聚餐上面對面而相遇了。經過重重難關后他們好不容易在一起了,一起買了閒小住宅,一起創造他們的愛窩。雖然不是很大,但足以讓人感到溫暖及愛心滿滿。所以3年后他們決定把他們的關係升級當真正的夫婦~ 

他們的小學

在衆位家人親戚及朋友的見證下,哥哥和嫂嫂宣誓成爲真正的夫妻了,女方爸爸也把新娘的手交托給新郎,希望他可以替她的爸爸可以繼續好好地保護及愛惜他的寶貝女兒。當然男方父母和家人也衷心祝福新郎可以過得更幸福美滿。

過後哥哥和嫂嫂一同回到他們的初遇地方- 小學, 本想說拍拍照片就算了,怎知遇見了我們的小學老師!更高興的是他們竟然還記得我們!老師乃是家人以外最多接觸的人,也是我人生的重要人物之一,是我很感激地老師們,所以我們趁機和老師拍了幾張照片后才走。

與老師們的合照,真的好久不見啊!

過後午餐時間時,我們在怡保某一大酒店里弄了個小型的訂婚派對,好讓雙方的家人和朋友們可以小聚聯絡感情。派對里我們只邀請關係較要好的出席,所以不是很多人,大概也只有20多至30人而已。雖然人不多但很熱鬧,因爲每一位都很熱情很開心。

最後我祝福哥哥和嫂嫂,希望他們可以幸福快樂,百年好合!